The Bystander Challenge
Learn to be an upstander who addresses challenges with respect and dignity.
One thing is certain in workplaces today: At some point, someone is going to make an inappropriate comment or behave in a way that may make people feel uncomfortable. This behavior, when left unaddressed, can escalate to the point where an individual feels harassed by their coworker.
In The Bystander Challenge, an interactive workshop developed by the National Conflict Resolution Center (NCRC), we explore the bystander’s role in changing this dynamic. Increasingly, bystanders are being asked to become upstanders who stand up to “red-flag” behavior. However, this may be easier said than done, as workplace dynamics can make it challenging to choose the correct course of action.
While notices to define and raise awareness about harassment and directives are common in workplaces, few programs teach people how to communicate with each other when they perceive red flags. NCRC equips people to have these challenging conversations in a way that demonstrates respect, inclusiveness, and dignity for everyone involved.
In a safe learning space, participants gain confidence using these skills, which are reinforced through thoughtful interactive exercises and reflective conversations. The training has a proven positive impact on workplace culture and perceptions of safety.
Goals of The Bystander Challenge
By the end of the course, participants will have the ability to:
- Identify the reasons for inaction on the part of bystanders.
- Reflect on their own values and how they may affect their decision to take action.
- Evaluate situations with clarity to decide what to do.
- Learn effective strategies to communicate concerns.
- Consider ways in which their co-worker may respond.
The Bystander Challenge, fulfills the legal requirement for anti-harassment training in all 50 states in the U.S. We have multiple versions of The Bystander Challenge, which fulfill both the training requirement for both supervisory and (for some states) non-supervisory employees. Those are two different classes and we can train managers and supervisors in one group and employees in another group.
What makes The Bystander Challenge different from other anti-harassment training is that instead of only covering what harassment is, how to identify it and what to do when you see it, The Bystander Challenge looks at all of the things that lead to harassment, to try to prevent it from happening in the first place. Furthermore, it teaches the bystander how to take practical steps to address “red-flag” behavior.
The Bystander Challenge is offered both as an online course or as a live workshop (either virtual or in person). The benefits of the online course work very well for companies that have large workforces that are difficult to get together for multiple classroom sessions. The live workshop is very beneficial for groups that want to dive into some practical experience. We use examples and role-plays, to evaluate various scenarios and practice difficult conversations around these topics. Both the online course and the live version are very interactive, requiring participants to think thoughtfully and critically about the topics in front of them. Some companies opt to do a combination of both; training the majority of the workforce in the online course and then a select number of individuals in the classroom course.
There is also a version of The Bystander Challenge that doesn’t include the anti-harassment and discrimination laws. This is a great option for companies who have already found a training that fulfills their anti-harassment training requirement. We highly encourage companies to consider The Bystander Challenge even if they have already fulfilled their legal training requirements, because it demonstrates a commitment to a positive work environment where everyone feels safe and respected. By empowering employees to speak up when they see red flags, companies create an environment that prevents harassment from happening in the first place.